Can a spouse be paid?
YesYes — Kansas can pay you to care for your spouse.
The fine print: yes — spouse can be hired under FE/PD self-directed attendant care
Kansas runs real Medicaid programs that pay family members to care for a loved one at home. Here is what they pay, who can be paid, and how to start.
18% of the state
each with its own page
that can pay a relative
see the full rule below

Population figures from the U.S. Census Bureau · Rules from each state's published Medicaid program
$13–$17/hr
Your exact pay is set by the program and your care plan. We'll tell you your real number before you enroll.
Source: Kansas Medicaid program data · Updated September 2026
There may be a waitlist. Applying early holds your place.
FE Waiver: new waitlist for FE applicants effective July 6 2026; PD waitlist eliminated end of FY2025; BI at risk of first-time waitlist after 2025 budget cuts
Yes — Kansas can pay you to care for your spouse.
The fine print: yes — spouse can be hired under FE/PD self-directed attendant care
Yes — Kansas has a path for parents of children who need care.
The fine print: yes — TA Waiver pays parents for personal care up to 12 hrs/day (40 hrs/wk, no overnight respite; nursing if parent is RN/LPN); BI and PD waivers also permanently allow paid parents of minors
Run by: Kansas Dept. for Aging and Disability Services (KDADS)
A program that can pay a family member for care at home.
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Apply for KanCare online (Self-Service Portal), by phone 800-792-4884, or paper, checking the HCBS box; ADRC (855-200-2372) arranges the functional assessment.
Forms, phone calls, the enrollment visit — we walk you through it all, free.
Yes. These are real Medicaid programs run by the state. In Kansas, they are overseen by the Kansas Dept. for Aging and Disability Services (KDADS). We help you enroll — applying costs you nothing.
Care at home costs Medicaid far less than a nursing home. So states pay family members to give that care at home. It's good for your loved one, and it's the law working the way it should.
Yes — Kansas can pay you to care for your spouse. The fine print: yes — spouse can be hired under FE/PD self-directed attendant care
Yes — Kansas has a path for parents of children who need care. The fine print: yes — TA Waiver pays parents for personal care up to 12 hrs/day (40 hrs/wk, no overnight respite; nursing if parent is RN/LPN); BI and PD waivers also permanently allow paid parents of minors
Reported figures are around $13–$17/hr, but rates vary — the program sets your exact pay. We'll tell you your real number before you enroll.
There may be a waitlist. Applying early holds your place. Details: FE Waiver: new waitlist for FE applicants effective July 6 2026; PD waitlist eliminated end of FY2025; BI at risk of first-time waitlist after 2025 budget cuts
It depends on the program. In Kansas: self-directed hire/train/fire, but a Financial Management Services (FMS) agency must handle payroll/taxes
Sources: medicaidplanningassistance.org · kdads.ks.gov · kidswaivers.org · Updated September 2026. Program rules change — always confirm with the program.
The programs are the same across Kansas. Pick your county to see how they work where you live.
Guides
Start with the Kansas caregiver program, then read how the pieces fit together.
Across the line
Each state writes its own rules, and they differ more than people expect — a spouse who can be paid on one side of the line often cannot be on the other.
Answer 5 easy questions. See your programs and pay before you share any contact info.