Can a spouse be paid?
YesYes — Hawaii can pay you to care for your spouse.
The fine print: yes — relatives including spouses and adult children can be hired under QI self-direction
Hawaii
Hawaii has real Medicaid programs that pay family members to care for a loved one at home. Here's what they pay, who can be paid, and how to start.
$14–$23/hr
Your exact pay is set by the program and your care plan. We'll tell you your real number before you enroll.
Source: Hawaii Medicaid program data · Updated September 2026
Some programs here have no waitlist. Others can have one.
Medicaid/QI enrollment is an entitlement, but HCBS/LTSS participant slots can be limited — waitlist can form when full
Yes — Hawaii can pay you to care for your spouse.
The fine print: yes — relatives including spouses and adult children can be hired under QI self-direction
Sometimes — special programs for children may pay parents.
The fine print: limited — self-direction allows hiring relatives, but payment of a parent for a minor child is not documented; confirm with Med-QUEST
Run by: Hawaii Dept. of Human Services, Med-QUEST Division (MQD)
A program that can pay a family member for care at home.
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Apply for Med-QUEST online at MyBenefits or with form DHS 1100 at a Med-QUEST Service Center (800-316-8005); once enrolled, request a long-term-services assessment through the QI health plan.
Forms, phone calls, the enrollment visit — we walk you through it all, free.
Yes. These are real Medicaid programs run by the state. In Hawaii, they are overseen by the Hawaii Dept. of Human Services. We help you enroll — applying costs you nothing.
Care at home costs Medicaid far less than a nursing home. So states pay family members to give that care at home. It's good for your loved one, and it's the law working the way it should.
Yes — Hawaii can pay you to care for your spouse. The fine print: yes — relatives including spouses and adult children can be hired under QI self-direction
Sometimes — special programs for children may pay parents. The fine print: limited — self-direction allows hiring relatives, but payment of a parent for a minor child is not documented; confirm with Med-QUEST
Reported figures are around $14–$23/hr, but rates vary — the program sets your exact pay. We'll tell you your real number before you enroll.
Some programs here have no waitlist. Others can have one. Details: Medicaid/QI enrollment is an entitlement, but HCBS/LTSS participant slots can be limited — waitlist can form when full
It depends on the program. In Hawaii: self-directed: participant hires the caregiver; a financial management services (FMS) agency handles payroll/taxes; services authorized through the member's QI health plan (MCO)
Sources: medicaidplanningassistance.org · medquest.hawaii.gov · Updated September 2026. Program rules change — always confirm with the program.
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