Can a spouse be paid?
Not right nowNot right now — but other family members can often be paid.
The fine print: no — spouses excluded under AFL, CFC, and the PCA waiver
Connecticut runs real Medicaid programs that pay family members to care for a loved one at home. Here is what they pay, who can be paid, and how to start.
19% of the state
each with its own page
that can pay a relative
see the full rule below

Population figures from the U.S. Census Bureau · Rules from each state's published Medicaid program
$500/week
Your exact pay is set by the program and your care plan. We'll tell you your real number before you enroll.
Source: Connecticut Medicaid program data · Updated September 2026
Some programs here have no waitlist. Others can have one.
CHCPE Medicaid waiver is slot-capped (~22,066/yr) and can waitlist; CFC is an entitlement with no waitlist
Not right now — but other family members can often be paid.
The fine print: no — spouses excluded under AFL, CFC, and the PCA waiver
Sometimes — special programs for children may pay parents.
The fine print: limited — parents of minors/legal guardians excluded from CFC/PCA; since 2023 the three DDS developmental-disability waivers pay parents of school-age children for respite/day/personal supports, capped at 800 awake hrs/yr (guardians of adults: 2,100 hrs/yr)
Run by: CT Dept. of Social Services, Community Options Unit
A program that can pay a family member for care at home.
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Call the DSS Community Options Unit or submit the CHCPE Request for Referral form; a care manager performs an in-home functional assessment.
Forms, phone calls, the enrollment visit — we walk you through it all, free.
Yes. These are real Medicaid programs run by the state. In Connecticut, they are overseen by the CT Dept. of Social Services. We help you enroll — applying costs you nothing.
Care at home costs Medicaid far less than a nursing home. So states pay family members to give that care at home. It's good for your loved one, and it's the law working the way it should.
Not right now — but other family members can often be paid. The fine print: no — spouses excluded under AFL, CFC, and the PCA waiver
Sometimes — special programs for children may pay parents. The fine print: limited — parents of minors/legal guardians excluded from CFC/PCA; since 2023 the three DDS developmental-disability waivers pay parents of school-age children for respite/day/personal supports, capped at 800 awake hrs/yr (guardians of adults: 2,100 hrs/yr)
Reported figures are around $500/week, but rates vary — the program sets your exact pay. We'll tell you your real number before you enroll.
Some programs here have no waitlist. Others can have one. Details: CHCPE Medicaid waiver is slot-capped (~22,066/yr) and can waitlist; CFC is an entitlement with no waitlist
It depends on the program. In Connecticut: AFL requires a sponsoring/intermediary agency that supports and pays the caregiver; CFC/PCA are self-directed with a fiscal intermediary handling payroll
Sources: medicaidplanningassistance.org · medicaidplanningassistance.org · payingforseniorcare.com · Updated September 2026. Program rules change — always confirm with the program.
The programs are the same across Connecticut. Pick your county to see how they work where you live.
Guides
Start with the Connecticut caregiver program, then read how the pieces fit together.
Across the line
Each state writes its own rules, and they differ more than people expect — a spouse who can be paid on one side of the line often cannot be on the other.
Answer 5 easy questions. See your programs and pay before you share any contact info.